Some guys like to do it loose they pack the sack in by hand, and the orifice then closes around their sacks, above their balls. On to your question: yeah, a guy can insert his balls into a vagina-or an anus, or a mouth, or the seventh hole of the Augusta National golf course. Tragically for all involved, most people on the receiving end of a “What?!?” emerge less likely to share their kinks with future sex partners, resulting in less interesting sex lives for all. It forces the other person to acknowledge that he or she is the bigger pervert and that we, by even contemplating indulging his or her kinks, are doing that person a favour. Our shock-real, feigned, or exaggerated-allows us to establish our moral superiority while placing the other person in a weaker position. You’re not the only person whose first reaction to an unexpected request is “What?!?” Many of us feel obliged-even the sexually adventurous among us-to go on the record with slight-to-mild-to-royal shock when a new partner presents us with a request for something besides standard-issue sex organ stuffed in standard-issue orifice.

But before I fill you in-or stuff it in-let’s pause to consider just what prompted you to toss out that “What?!?” bomb in the first place. I mean, here you are, all these months later, wondering what that “What?!?” caused you to miss out on. Is it any wonder that he quickly moved on to “other things” and, one would hope, better sex partners?Īnd that’s too bad, RIT, because it sounds like you may have been a little curious, maybe even tempted, by his request.

There the guy was, boned for you, and he was brave enough to put his desires out there, to make himself vulnerable (which is what the ladies are always saying they want, right?), and you lobbed the ol’ “What?!?” bomb at him and made him feel like a freak. Nothing shrivels the ol’ dick quite as quickly as the “What?!?” bomb. Are we prudes or is this something I’m missing out on? After laughing, they all said they’d never heard of such a thing. I’ve shared this story with a couple of girlfriends. I said, “What?!?” and he moved on to other things. A few months ago, I was making out with a guy and he whispered to me that he wanted to insert his balls into me. Is it possible for a man to insert his balls into a woman? It’s a topic I don’t want to Google.

Balls deep